Our primary guideline is that we be polite and respectful in responses
to other subscribers. Rudeness or attacks on other people are not acceptable
Messages to this group must be kept private and confidential. Do not
share messages with someone outside of this list without the author's
permission. This helps make this group safer for people to find comfort
and to heal.
Please restrict topics to those for which the list has been created,
which is your grief. Discussions of unrelated issues often confuse new
members just joining. Spam, chain letters, forwarded email, and letters
requesting replies to off-list addresses are not allowed on any GriefNet
lists. They cause our mail system to clog up and do not usually serve
the purpose that we are here for: to share our grief and tell our own
Please do not discuss religion or spiritual beliefs except in grief-religion
or grief-spirits. Our membership is composed of people from all over
the world who embrace a variety of faiths and religious beliefs. What
comforts one person may greatly offend another. We do have two groups
for discussion of religious or spiritual beliefs, which you may join
by sending a request to firstname.lastname@example.org.
Humor in the form of jokes can be helpful but also possibly destructive,
especially when the joke centers on controversial topics, uses overt
sexual language, makes fun of someone because of their ethnic background,
their sexual orientation, their religious or political affiliation, and
probably numerous other antisocial themes. Use extreme discretion and
post sparingly, please.
We discourage users from writing to each other privately. If someone
has something to say that cannot be shared with the group, then it probably
shouldn't be said at all. Never contact another member privately without
first asking permission of that person from within the group. Remember
that while we do a preliminary screening of our members, we have no way
to guarantee that people actually are who they say they are. Remember
also that the Internet is not a totally secure environment. There are
many people on the Internet using it for monetary gain or self-glorification
and sometimes they will, despite our best efforts, invade our space.
We cannot keep all of the offenders out, but we will deal with them appropriately
when they are detected. Meanwhile, never give out your personal information
to a group. Do not share your phone number, your address, or anything
else you would not wish anyone and everyone to know. Never hesitate to
contact any of the GriefNet staff if you have concerns about someone
in the group.
Products or services of any sort may not be discussed or recommended,
either by supplying web addresses or by describing in detail the commercial
venture. This includes recommending individual practitioners or organizations
of any sort, or directing people to other internet sites.
Please do not use multiple addresses when sending messages to the groups,
even if you plan to send the same message to other groups of which you
are a member. Send each message separately. If you send messages to a
number of people or groups at once, they may get stuck in our server
or lost. Do not Cc: or Bcc: anyone when writing to the group.
Attachments are not permitted, as they can easily contain a computer
virus, which can totally disable your computer. The same goes for any
form of graphics, including messages in html. Use plain text only.
you have any problem with sending or receiving mail, or difficulty
unsubscribing, please write to email@example.com. If you have any
other problems or concerns, write firstname.lastname@example.org